Yesterday was another visit to our lawyer for more legal protections for our family. We updated my Health Care Power of Attorney to give K the right to make decisions about the pregnancy/baby. And we set up a Temporary Guardianship that gives K the right to make decisions about the baby and to become the temporary guardian if I go in a coma but the baby is okay or something morbid like that. Just $250 more to protect our family, on top of the $1575 we've already spent. It's expensive but totally worth it to protect our non-legal family.
Next step is after the baby is born - Standby Guardianship for the first couple of months and Second-parent Adoption after that.