I sent this email to my sister yesterday:
Hi J, I haven't heard back from you in a week, which I guess means you are still mad. I don't know how to make you see that my intentions are not malice, or even drama. I hope all is okay with you. And I hope to here from you soon.
And received this very nice reply:
Everyone is invited. I looked at your registry and made a list of suggestions, but haven't had time to e-mail it. The shower will start at 10:30. I have bought the invitations, but haven't printed them yet. I am thinking about doing a valentine's day theme of love since it will be v day. Have you gotten your plane tickets yet?